Fed up

There's been no spanking, sex or fun all weekend - we seem to have done nothing but argue - it wouldn't be so bad if it was something worth arguing over but its all little silly arguments.

Earlier I got yelled at for ripping a plastic bag - he had got some shopping and had tied the bag tight and couldn't get it open to get the bread rolls out he wnated to take to work for lunch - he asked me to do it and I couldn't untie it either so I ripped the bag open and then got yelled at cause he wanted the bag to put his rolls in - I'm not a mind reader - so ended up in a screaming match.

Then he popped in to make his lunch and offered me one of his rolls to take to work - I said no thanks, then after he made it he said are you sure you don't want any - I said I'm sure thanks. He came to see what I was upto on the computer and offered again - I said no thanks. Then on his way out the door he offered again and I couldn't be nice any more and shouted for gods no - how many more times to I have to say no. To which he replied I was only trying to be nice and slammmed the door on his way out.

Trying to nice is offering once or maybe twice but driving me insane by keep asking isn't it? Or maybe I'm in a bad mood - anyway I have to get ready for work now.

Safe so far

My bottom is still safe at the moment. I was out last night so didn't get up till late this morning and then DH went out to watch the racing with his father and now I am off to meet him for lunch.

He hasn't mentioned my due spanking today - not sure whether I am pleased about that or not?

Well anyway time to go - see you later

Thanks Bonnie

I am really chuffed - thank you so much for mentioning my blog.

Also thanks to my 2 followers - although at the moment there isn't very much to follow. We have both been really busy with work and haven't had much time together to talk let alone anything else. (opposite shifts all week)

Although things could change on Sunday - we both have the day off and I have been warned that ther is a spanking coming my way as several times this week he has found DVDs in the wrong cases - something that drives him mad - I can't see it myself they are safe but I fear my bottom is not and I might see things his way on Monday.

We will see we have tried the DD lifestyle several times without much success it just ends up being a game - DH will make up silly excuses to spank me but then let me weedle my way out of the ones I really need but do not think I want at the time - leaving me feeling cheated. Then other times I think that its the fantasy of DD that I want not the reality - maybe we will get it together one day but in the mean time the erotic spankings are fantastic.

That's it from me for now

I got a spanking

Only a short one but better than nothing. He had me lie over a chair with my feet on the floor one side and my hands on the floor the othet side. Then he gave me a few swots with his hand and then picked up my slipper and gave me about a dozen swots with it. Boy oh boy did it sting.

Then he led me upstairs and and fucked me hard and fast leaving me feel used and abused - it was fantastic

I want a sapnking

I really need one. Its been what feels like ages since we had any time to play - first DH was sick and then working extra hours this week.

What I what is a sound spanking that I will still be feeling tomorrow - however this is unlikely to happen. DH is on late shift tonight and won't be home till about 3am - he'll be really tired when he gets home so I doubt he will want to play and if he does the spanking won't be very long as there has been no sex lately either and that will take priority.

At least we both have tomorrow off work so hopefully some fun then...

Starting again

Since DH has been off work poorly I have not managed to get much of my flylady routines done at all - in fact I haven't really had much time to do anything at all except go to work and look after DH.

When I added up all I haven't done ready to update my punishment log - the spank count was really high - so DH has said I would be forgiven those as I had been looking after him - its not that I have been lazy or spent too much time on the pc - I just haven't had the time to complete my tasks.

He went back to work today so we are starting afresh from today.

My punishment log is back to 0 - at least for now

Punishment Log

7 x daily tasks missed 8th July = 7 spanks
1 x daily tasks missed 6th July = 1 spank

Total spanks due = 8 spanks

Punishment log

1 x daily task missed 6th July = 1 spank due

I knew it couldn't last

After what seemed like a really long dry spell we had sex twice yesterday and a really nice spanking which left a couple of small bruises (which just proves how long its been as I hardly ever bruise).

Then today DH woke up with a muscle spasm in his neck which he gets from time to time. So no sex or spanking for at least a week...maybe more

Punishment log

I will update this daily for the day before

I am happy to say that I was a good girl yesterday and completed all my daily tasks and therefore no punishment is due.

Housework

My problem is that although I like a clean house - I am not consistant with my housework. It is always an all or nothing affair.

I will take a week off work and spend the whole time doing the house from top to bottom and end up going back to work shattered and then of course I don't want to do another single piece of housework for ages and the house gets back into a state again and we are back to square one.

Well then I found Flylady - a wonderful system of breaking done all your household tasks into lists - so I got all my list organised but I am still not consisitant with it.

So the answer is tasks not completed on my lists will earn me a spanking. I am spanked by my dear husband for fun and we have tried the DD lifestyle a few times but I think we always try to do too much all in one go or set the punishments spanks too high for things so that I end up being due far too many spanks and so it only ends up being every 10th spank is hard enough to be called a punishment and I feel like its just playtime.

This time we are just going to use punishment spanking for my housework tasks to begin with. Smaller numbers of spanks so that they can be delivered with more force and be a proper punishment. (within my limitations of course)

So my lists are broken down into

Daily tasks - such as making the bed

Weekly tasks - such as general hoovering

Monthly tasks - such as detail dusting

Yearly tasks - such as clearing out drawers

Any undone tasks will earn me as follows

Daily - 1 spank

Weekly - 2 spanks

Monthly - 3 spanks

Yearly - 4 spanks

These will be given as and when we have the time and dear hubby is in the mood.

I will log any due spamks here and cross them out when they have been given.
The start date for this was yesterday.